My dad passed away two weeks ago, after living with dementia for about fifteen years. We were comforted by the family members and dear friends, from many different phases of his life, who came to grieve with us. Over and over again, amid hugs and tears, we heard them tell us, “I remember his whistle.”

It’s true. My dad whistled first thing in the morning and all through the day. He whistled in the grocery store, the bank, the post office. He also loved to sing, but as the disease clouded his mind and song lyrics slipped away, he could still whistle. The great thing about whistling is that you don’t have to remember any words. It is pure melody, emerging from our lungs. It is breath itself. It is life itself.

Last Monday, my mom opened a devotional book, Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief, by Martha W. Hickman, that had been given to her by a friend. The devotion for that day began with a line from Frederick Buechner, a writer and theologian who also passed away this year: “Even in the dark, you have the power to whistle.”

It can be difficult to whistle in times of darkness or confusion or sorrow. And yet, as Hickman writes, when we whistle, we “give up the image of ourselves as the dolorous and the wounded and, for this moment anyway, rejoin the active stream of life.” Whistling is an embrace of life and of joy.

Darkness is coming upon us in this season, as the days become short and the nights long. We prepare to enter Advent, a time of waiting. And yet, we know what lies ahead. We know the light will return. We know we will reach the day when we celebrate the birth of Christ, just as the days begin to lengthen.

As we wait, and certainly at St. Andrew’s, we have music to uplift us and songs to sing. And, why not, whistle?

Carrie Klaus

Decorating of the Chrismon Tree

The youth have begun decorating the Chrismon Tree that is standing next to the pulpit. Each week, the youth will put ornaments they have made on the tree and explain their significance. This week’s ornaments:
Lily: The lily represents resurrection. This is based on the blooming of the flower from the seemingly dead bulb.
Shell: The shell is a symbol for baptism. It reminds Christians of the water they are baptized in. It is also a sign of pilgrimage: pilgrims to the Holy Land would drink out of shells.
Anchor Cross: The anchor cross was used by early Christians as a symbol of their faith when they hid under persecution.
Circle and Triangle: The circle and the triangle represent the eternity of the Trinity.
Butterfly: The butterfly is an ancient symbol of resurrection, as a beautiful butterfly emerges from a seemingly dead chrysalis.
Bottony Cross: The cross is the symbol of life that springs from death—the gift of the cross. The three leafed clover at the bottom connects us to the Trinity. There is also a connection with Aaron’s staff that budded and was preserved in the Ark of the Covenant, showing that life comes from death, and renewed life from difficult circumstances.
Candle: The candle represents Jesus as the Light of the World.
Circle Chi Rho Butterfly: This symbolizes God’s wholeness and eternity. The butterfly symbolizes resurrection.
Crown: The crown is the symbol of the Prince of Peace, King of Kings, and Lord of Lords—Jesus.

Advent and Christmas Calendar

Nov 27 Advent 1 Advent calendar craft 11.30-12.30
Youth Pageant rehearsal 12.30-1.30

Dec 4 Advent 2 Advent window star craft 11.30-12.30
Youth Pageant rehearsal 12.30-1.30

Dec 11 Advent 3 Youth pageant in Sunday worship
Advent rose window craft 11.30-12.30
Youth at the Waters 2.00-3.00

Dec 18 Advent 4 Greening of the Church 11.30-12.30

Dec 19 Deadline for Christmas Flower memorials

Dec 21 Longest Night service 7.00 pm

Dec 24 Christmas Eve 5.00 special music
5.30 Christmas Eve Service

Dec 25 Christmas Day 10.15

Jan 1 Feast of the Holy Name 10.15
Service of Lessons and Carols

Advent Wreaths

It was so wonderful to have so many putting together Advent Wreaths—many thanks to Brooke Cox and Cathryn Ensley for putting together and putting out all the materials. A few tips:
1. Keep your wreath hydrated—spritz it at least daily and/or soak in the sink 1-2 times a week. We keep ours on a large plate to protect the table. If the candles burn low, stop lighting them. The branches become dry and go up in flames very quickly, especially at the end of Advent.
2. Use your wreaths at dinner, or at a bedtime snack, last cup of tea, or just 10 mins. before people start off to bed. Light and extinguish the candles while you are there.
3. If you chose the purple and rose candles, the rose one is for Advent 3, Gaudete (Joy) Sunday which is also Mary’s Sunday. Both sets (red, rose-and-purple) have deep traditions. Each Sunday has a specific theme:
Advent One: Watch
Advent Two: Turn from the bad, and turn to the good
Advent Three: Rejoice
Advent Four: Recognize

Here is a prayer moment to use when you light the candles. You can have a small prayer moment each day of Advent, or each Sunday when you light a new candle. The parts in bold are to be said out loud. When you get to Week Two, add Advent Two’s scripture to Advent One’s—so by Advent Four you will be saying all four lines. The same pattern follows through all four weeks.

Opening: Light candle, and recite the verse(s):
Advent 1: “And what I say to you I say to all: Keep awake.” (Mark 13:37)
Advent 2: “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near.” (Matthew 3:2)
Advent 3: “Are you the one who is to come?” (Matt 11.3)
Advent 4: “The Lord is with you.” (Luke 1:28)

Reader 1: The Redeemer shall come. (Isa. 59:20)
All: A light to lighten a world of darkness. (Luke 32:2)
Reader: The candle of watching, (week 1)
repentance, (week 2)
rejoicing, (week 3)
recognizing. (week 4)

Let us pray.
God our Light,
Quiet our minds that we may watch for you; (week 1)
Expose our sins that we may repent and prepare for you; (week 2)
Reveal your love that we may rejoice in serving you; (week 3)
Open our eyes that we may recognize and welcome you. (week 4)

Make our lamps shine and proclaim to all the world that darkness is at end; there is Light for those who seek it and love for all. Amen.

If you have any concerns or thanksgivings, offer them here.

Say together in closing:
Creator of the stars of night,
Creation’s everlasting light,
Jesus, Redeemer, save us all,
And hear your people when we call.
Amen.

Giving Tree

We have received the Giving Tree tags for this year. For those of you who are unfamiliar with this organization, it is for children in need living in Putnam County to receive Christmas gifts. Each child receives an article of clothing, a toy, and one other item. We have created a Sign Up Genius that you can choose a gift/gifts for a respective child. Our assigned children range from 2-15 years of age. If you would rather not shop you can make a donation and we will do the shopping for you! If you choose this option you can give your donation at church or mail checks to Gwen at 709 Toddson Drive. The checks can be made out to Gwen or to St. Andrews. When you enter the Sign Up Genius there are fifty one gifts entered. All gifts must be unwrapped. The limit for each gift is $25.00. Please bring your items to church or deliver to Gwen’s house by December 4^th. If you have your gift at an earlier date it is okay to bring them in at your convenience. Gwen’s phone number is (765) 653-6734 (H) or (765) 720-0105 (C). The link is below for Sign Up Genius. Gwen just informed us that all gift tags have now been spoken for and she’d like to thank you all for your generosity!

Click here for link.

Gwen Morris

Rev. Jen has set her office drop-in day as Wednesday of each week from 9:30 – 11:30 a.m. and 1:30 – 3:30 p.m. for anyone who would like to stop in and visit. You are always invited to make an appointment for a time convenient for you. Also, she has chosen Mondays as her Sabbath day.

Sunday Morning In-Person Worship Service, November 27, led by Rev. Dr. Jennifer Oldstone-Moore, 10:15 a.m.

You can connect to the service via Zoom. Click on this link to connect. If you have not used Zoom before, you will be prompted to download Zoom, go ahead and do that. When you enter the meeting you should be able to see and hear others and others can see and hear you. If you come in a little late, please listen for a moment before speaking. In order to see everyone, go to Gallery view (upper right on PCs and upper left for Macintosh). When we get started everyone except the speaker will be muted. If you are reading or playing music, please be sure to unmute yourself.

If you are connecting via telephone dial 301-715-8592 and when prompted enter the Meeting ID: 858 0497 0006 and press #, then enter the password: pray and press # again.

Click here for the service booklet for November 27.

UPDATE ON MAUREEN CARKEEK

Our good friend, Maureen, is going to be spending a little time at Mill Pond. If you’d like to drop her a card or line, the address is 1014 Mill Pond Lane, Greencastle, IN 46135 and the phone number there is (765) 276-0322.

ADVENT DEVOTIONAL

The Visual Commentary on Scripture (VCS) is an on-going publication that uses art, theology (theology is basically “talking about God”), and scripture to experience and understand the Bible in new ways. In Advent, VCS has a specially designed four group sessions for a striking and beautiful way to engage Advent. If you are interested, let Rev. Jen know: we can plan an in-person and/or on-line (or on-line hybrid) four week series using these resources. We will set up a special Bible study for Advent. If you’d like to access VCS yourself, the website is: https://thevcs.org/

CHRISTMAS COOKIES

The Non-Food Pantry would love to have homemade Christmas cookies again this year! They will be putting them in the NFP treat bags for distribution on Saturday, December 17. If you bake them ahead of time you are welcome to store them in the St. Andrew’s freezer or bring them just before that date. Thanks in advance!

CHRISTMAS PARTY

The annual Christmas Party will be on Sunday, December 4 from 4:00-6:00 p.m. at the home of Dave and Sue Murray, 514 East Seminary Street. Please feel free to bring hors d’oeuvres to share if you’d like. All are welcome!

TUESDAY BIBLE STUDY – 4:30 P.M. IN HAMILTON HALL

On Tuesday, November 29 we will be reading and discussing Luke 2:15-21. You can find the week’s readings at lectionarypage.net. All are welcome!

ELEMENTARY SCHOOL YOUTH SUNDAY SCHOOL – VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

The youth are up to some fun – learning about Christian symbols and making Chrismon ornaments. Join them by being an occasional volunteer! Once you have completed your Safe Church training, all you have to do is show up – Macie and Jen+ have everything prepared. The youth come into the sanctuary for the Peace.

COMMUNION AT THE WATERS

Once a month Sunday services have resumed at The Waters. The next service will be Sunday, December 11 at 2:00 – 2:45 p.m. This will be a special service with carols and music from our youth. If you’d like to help with this ministry in any way, please contact Rev. Jen or Renee. All are welcome to attend!

ON-GOING COVID PROTOCOL

We continue to respond to both our county’s current CDC designation and to the current variant. Masking is optional. Those who serve bread and wine will mask so that anyone who comes to the altar can feel secure. Decisions on COVID policy have moved from the Reconvening Committee to Rev. Jen and the Wardens.

We have heard that the daily reflections and scripture readings provided during Lent were appreciated. The meditations are written by persons from Gobin UMC and Beech Grove UMC. They will be in the newsletter each week and go from Wednesday to Tuesday, except for Sunday. Whether you enjoy these every day or as the Spirit moves you, may this resource continue to bring you spiritual food for the journey. Blessings!

Click here to view the readings and accompanying links.

Your prayers are asked for:

I would like to discuss our returning to communion by wine via the common cup.

Background: The Diocese of Indianapolis has stated that we may return to full communion (both bread and wine), but that receiving the wine can be by common cup only. Several parishioners have had questions about this. Here’s what I’d like you to know at this point.

• The Vestry voted and approved our new COVID guidelines recommended by the Regathering Committee.
• We might use the words “full communion” to indicate that we are finally back to both bread and wine, but it has ALWAYS been true that taking either one is a complete communion. You do not need both to fully commune.
• The choice is yours, Eucharist by Eucharist. You can decide to let the cup pass because you have a cold; if you are worried about others you can pass; you can wait until we return to intinction. Just cross your arms over your chest—or just shake your head and quietly demur.

Yours in health, restoration, liturgical engagement, and literature review,

Rev. Jen